Most of us associate being compassionate, nonjudgmental, and allowing the other to be and do as they please — as laying the foundation to “being taken advantage of”. It’s very natural to assume this. But, I’m suggesting, to allow the steam roller to be the steam roller – doesn’t mean to place oneself in its path.
Avoiding Monsters: Sucker Proofing Your Relationships Read More »
We’ve heard saying like “It’s not what you say, but how you say it”; “Actions speak louder than words”; “It’s not what you way, but how you feel when you say it.” After an incident this past week, I totally agree with all of those statements more than ever. Why?
It’s not what you say (Part II) Read More »
I recently was asked “How do you handle the “pains in the neck” at the office, home and social environments.
How do you handle the “pains in the necks” on your projects? Read More »
A common culprit behind schedule slips is adding up estimates for building subunits and not accounting for verification and integration.
Done or Done Done? Read More »
The “secret” code to success and advancement in any organization is to make yourself more valuable, align with organizational goals,
The Complete Project Manager – Summary Read More »
Today’s busy lifestyle and every-changing technology makes it difficult to stay on top (never mind ahead). If we’re too busy taking care of today’s’ business, how can we find time to prepare for tomorrow? Granted, this opens a can of worms. There are many avenues to this discussion. Today, we’ll try to focus on “how to stay knowledgeable and continue to be considered an expert in my field.”
Finding time to stay ahead Read More »
This is a little snippet from my Raleigh presentation at the Total Health Seminar. The Total Health Seminar is packed
What do you do when it’s someone else that is STRESSING YOU OUT!!!! Read More »
I’ve heard that “It’s the thought that counts”.
I’ve heard that “Action speaks louder than words.”
I’ve heard that “I think, therefore I am.”
I’ve heard that “The pen is mightier than the sword.”
So – which is “more” right? Which is more important, thought or action?
Which is better, thought or action? Read More »
Whether we project managing our work projects, our careers, our finances or our personal relationships, the concept of focusing on what can be done “NOW” to improve our situation is critical. This is the second part of a two-part series. Hope you enjoy it.
Want a wonderful life? Then start NOW. Read More »
Whether we project managing our work projects, our careers, our finances or our personal relationships, the concept of focusing on what can be done “NOW” to improve our situation is critical. This is the second part of a two-part series. Hope you enjoy it.
Want a wonderful life? Then start NOW. Read More »
Today’s economy is certainly making most people anxious. In these desperate times, the positive frugal, thrifty and cautious nature can be taken a tad too far. Without knowing, this singular cost-conscious attention morphs turns to mooching or taking advantage of friends and family. Use this tips to avoid being either the moocher or the enabler.
Setting expectations: A positive defense against moochers Read More »