How to handle uncomfortable business networking events

Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose.  I am a speaker and author.  I am an expert in time and project management.

I help busy professionals and entrepreneurs create effective systems so that they can comfortably delegate to others, be more profitable and have time to enjoy life even if they don’t have time to learn new technology or train their staff.  I have a knack for turning big ideas into on time and profitable projects.

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Today’s question came from a busy professional interested in freeing some time and space to advance in his career.

We all understand the importance and value of business networking. How do we handle networking events in a proper and professional manner?

One of the best ways to break the ice at a networking event is to pretend or put on the persona of a host.  Focus your attention on “your guests”.  Put the spotlight onto them.  Allow them to shine and talk about themselves.  Most people are there to talk about themselves, anyway – why to against the flow?

  1. Ask them questions about “What brought them here tonight?” “What are they hoping to gain or what are their goals for this meeting?”
  2. If they share that they are looking for referrals on XYZ or people that they can work with on ABC – connect them to someone that you just met at the same meeting that shares those goals.
  3. Don’t stay too long with any one person.  Like a host, make sure you mingle.  You can say “I know you want to meet more people, and I want to respect your time.  I would love to stay in contact, why don’t we exchange contact information and make plans to call each other on Thursday.   How does that sound?”

If you really want to stay in contact, take out your calendar and then move on.

But what if you are shy or is an introvert?  Are there any other special tips for us?

Normally what makes shy people uncomfortable is having the spotlight shined on ourselves.  So – much like the above advice, shine the spotlight on other people.  Instead of worrying about what other people think about you – focus on learning more about the other person.  People love to talk about themselves and it takes the pressure off you to carry the entire conversation.

Also, look around to see if anyone is sitting alone or hiding in the corner (make sure it’s not you doing the hiding as well).  Then go up and visit them.  They may be feeling uncomfortable, so be a good host and go up and introduce them to some other folks.

For additional articles and videos on tips for introverts, check out these artifacts:

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